Welcome to the ABDL COMMUNITY
The ABDL community is made up of diverse individuals who enjoy different aspects of being an Adult Baby (AB) or Diaper Lover (DL). For some, it’s a form of stress relief, relaxation, or emotional comfort. For others, it may be tied to identity or more personal, intimate interests. This website is designed to provide a non-judgmental space where individuals can learn, grow, and connect with like-minded people.
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Age play is a form of role playing in which consenting adults pretend to be older or younger than their actual age. Any age can be portrayed, from infancy to the elderly, and often includes appropriate clothing, speech, and behavior of that age group. As with most types of role play, the excitement in age play comes from breaking societal taboos and creating power dynamics, such as the inherent power a parent has over a child. Age play can be purely regressive or it can be intensely sensual, depending on the role play scene and the interests of the individuals involved.
On the wide spectrum of ageplay, the youngest range are “adult babies,” who enjoy pretending to be infants or toddlers with age-appropriate items like diapers, pacifiers, and baby bottles. The term “ABDL” encompasses a community of “adult babies (AB) and “diaper lovers (DL).” Some “diaper lovers” fetishize diapers as a type of clothing, similar to a latex or PVC fetish, without any age play involved at all. “Littles” role play as children between the ages of 3-10, enjoying activities such as cartoons, coloring books, snack time, stuffed animals, or Legos. A Mommy, babysitter, or teacher might punish a “little” with time out or an over the knee spanking to reinforce a child-like loss of control. “Middles” role play as pre-teens or young teenagers, often with a characteristic brattiness and inquisitiveness about their budding sexuality
Understanding ABDL
Adult Babies (ABs): People who enjoy role-playing as infants or toddlers. This may involve wearing baby clothing, using bottles and pacifiers, or engaging in baby-like behavior. It’s often seen as a form of emotional escape or stress relief.
Diaper Lovers (DLs): People who derive comfort or enjoyment from wearing diapers without necessarily engaging in any other baby-like behaviors. For some, it’s about physical comfort, while for others, it may involve a sexual or emotional element.
ABDL COMMUNITY SPACE
Participating in the ABDL lifestyle can sometimes feel isolating. Connecting with others who share your interests can help. Here are some trusted community forums and social spaces:
One of the largest online forums for the ABDL community. A safe space to share stories, experiences, and connect with others.
A moderated and open discussion space for ABDLs to share advice, content, and experiences.
"BENEFITS" AND PROFESSIONAL RESOURCES OF THE ABDL COMMUNITY
Mental Health Support: If you're exploring the ABDL lifestyle and want to ensure that it fits within a healthy mental and emotional framework, we recommend connecting with a licensed therapist who specializes in alternative lifestyles, kink, or fetishes. Here are some online directories where you can find kink-aware professionals:
Kink Aware Professionals Directory: – A comprehensive list of mental health professionals who understand and are knowledgeable about alternative lifestyles, including ABDL.
Psychology Today: – Offers a therapist search feature where you can find professionals who specialize in non-traditional sexual identities and practices.
Health & Hygiene: Maintaining proper health and hygiene is essential when engaging in ABDL practices. Here are some tips and resources:
Incontinence and Skin Care: If you wear diapers regularly, make sure to follow proper skin care practices to avoid irritation or infections. You can find guides and professional advice from our experienced caregivers
Choosing the Right Products: Whether for comfort or necessity, it’s important to select the right diaper and accessories.
We’re proud reseller, we augment our many vendors’ online businesses. Our offline ABDL boutique offers an in-store experience that is quite unique.
We represent many different vendors with an extensive product line, carrying a selection of 20+ different, adorable brands of diapers at any given time in addition to onesies, bottles, pacifiers, bibs, diaper boosters, training pants and diaper covers.
Getting Involved in our Community
Join Online Communities**: There are various online platforms dedicated to ABDL topics where you can safely interact with others:
A social networking site for people interested in alternative lifestyles.
A supportive ABDL forum for people to discuss their experiences, ask questions, and connect.
Attend Events**: Depending on your location, there are local ABDL meetups, conventions, or social gatherings with your vicinity
List local ABDL-friendly events where you can meet others in a judgment-free space.
WHY YOU SHOULD JOIN US ?
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NAVIGATING RELATIONSHIPS & COMMUNICATION
Engaging in ABDL behaviors within relationships can sometimes be challenging, especially if a partner is unfamiliar or uncomfortable with the lifestyle. Open and honest communication is key. Here are some resources to help:
Communicating with Your Partner: Resources like the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom(NCSF) provide educational materials on how to navigate conversations about non-traditional sexual and lifestyle practices.
Couples Counseling: If you and your partner are having difficulty discussing ABDL interests, a counselor familiar with alternative lifestyles can help facilitate healthy communication.
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Age play, for instance, is for adults due to its connections with kink; while age regression can be participated in and experienced by any age; on account of it being a form of therapy/coping mechanism (though some use age play to cope as well). With the mention of minors being able to take part in regression, it’s worth noting that **age regression is not sexual at all, unlike age play. Age play can be sexual and/or non-sexual because the person/s involved is/are playing as an age; whereas age regression, even if it’s between adults, is never sexual because the individual involved is mentally regressing (usually to the age of a minor). In other words, they can not give consent.**
Lastly, one of the more minor differences between the two is that age players can roleplay any age they want. The age an ageplayer picks can range from young to old, while age regressors are regressing to a younger age always."
ADULT BABIES / DIAPER LOVER COMMUNITY SPACE
Bondage is a form of restraint that is quite straightforward in concept yet rich in practice and variation. It falls within the broader BDSM umbrella, which stands for 'bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism, and masochism.' This acronym encapsulates a wide range of sexual fantasies and practices that many individuals explore. Within this realm, some people derive pleasure from being tied up, while others find joy in the act of tying up their partner. Interestingly, many individuals enjoy both roles, and those who embrace both dominant and submissive positions are often referred to as switches.
In bondage, a variety of tools and techniques can be employed, ranging from traditional kinky sex toys like handcuffs and rope to more creative alternatives. For instance, you might use a scarf, a tie, or even a T-shirt to gently restrain your partner's wrists during intimate moments, making bondage accessible even for those who are just starting out.
If you're looking to explore this exciting aspect of intimacy, a good starting point could be tying someone to a bed frame with a tie or scarf. However, if your bed frame isn’t designed for such activities, you can begin with simpler methods, such as binding your partner's arms together. As your comfort and experience grow, you might consider elevating the experience with more specialized equipment, such as shackle mounts or suspension bars, which can enhance the thrill and creativity of your sessions.
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B FOR BONDAGE
C FOR CUCKOLD
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D IS FOR DOMINANCE
Typically bondage uses kinky sex toys such as handcuffs or rope, but it can also be as tame as you using a scarf, a tie, or a T-shirt to restrain your partner's wrists when you're getting it on. To get into it, you can tie someone up to a bed frame using a tie or scarf or, if your bed frame isn’t kink-compatible, you could start by simply binding the arms together. To up the ante, you can purchase shackle mounts or suspension bars.
Typically bondage uses kinky sex toys such as handcuffs or rope, but it can also be as tame as you using a scarf, a tie, or a T-shirt to restrain your partner's wrists when you're getting it on. To get into it, you can tie someone up to a bed frame using a tie or scarf or, if your bed frame isn’t kink-compatible, you could start by simply binding the arms together. To up the ante, you can purchase shackle mounts or suspension bars.
S FOR SISSYFICATION
Sissification" is a term often used in the context of BDSM or fetish communities to describe a specific form of role-play or fantasy. It involves the feminization or emasculation of a person, typically a man, through various means such as clothing, behavior, or activities. The goal is to intentionally portray or experience a submissive, feminine role.
The person undergoing the process may wear traditionally feminine attire like dresses, lingerie, makeup, and accessories. They may also engage in behaviors that are stereotypically associated with femininity, such as adopting a more delicate or submissive demeanor. This can be done in a consensual and role-playing context between adults who enjoy exploring power dynamics and fetish fantasies.
It's important to note that any activities related to sissification or any other BDSM practices should always be consensual, safe, and respectful. Clear communication, boundaries, and consent are crucial when engaging in any kind of role-play or fetish activities to ensure the well-being and comfort of all involved parties.
R IS FOR ROLE PLAY
Role playing is another common kink, which involves people taking on characters outside of their day-to-day lives as part of a sex scene. This can be as simple as putting on a nurse’s outfit or as elaborate as constructing an entire scene complete with character development. Common examples include doctor and patient (medical role play), boss and secretary, pool boy and rich housewife, or college student and professor. While role playing often comes with costumes and is a fabulous excuse to dress up, an extensive wardrobe is not required. Scenes can be created through dirty talk and pure imagination.
w is for whip
Whip is commonly used as an umbrella term for all impact play tools, though it technically refers to an item with a thinner body that produces more of a “stingy” sensation. (You’ll often hear BDSM practitioners refer to sensations as either stingy or thuddy—the latter describing a toy like a paddle.) The most advanced whip on the market is the single-tail, which looks like a snake and can create a cracking noise when used correctly. Single-tails break the skin and can wrap around the body, injuring areas where organs reside, and should only be used by professional dominatrices with years of experience. Even some pro dominatrices will use them only for intimidation, rather than to actually impact their submissive’s body. If you want to try a whip, opt for a beginner-friendly option.
OUR MISSION
OUR VISION
members should (and do) talk about non-diaper topics most of the time.
We find that this helps everyone in the long run, because it enables the people who do it to form real friendships based on more than just a common interest in diapers. This ultimately leads to everyone being happier, and us having a stronger, more friendly community. It is not necessary to wear diapers to participate here, though
There’s all that you could desire. There are toys of all kinds in the corner for babies and toddlers, a little playset outside, a sandbox, swings, there are lots of snacks and juices, cribs for nap time, changing tables and a variety of diapers, potties for those who want to be big kids, coloring and crafts, there’s a room full of bean bag chairs with a tv, and everything else your little heart could desire and a gift card voucher and 20% discount for shopping after registration
Our vision is to support our members through the diaper-related challenges they face.
Being an adult who wears diapers can sometimes be challenging, and the community is here to support people facing those challenges.
For example, we reassure members they are not alone, and let them see how others have overcome similar challenges our secondary goal is providing a social environment for members.Somewhere to talk, to laugh, to relax, and to have intelligent discussions.Since our members are spread out geographically, our nurseries is our opportunity for all (caregivers)mommy’s, daddy’s, littles, switch talk with each other.
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What If One Party Breaks a Service Contract?
If one party cannot fulfill their obligations, professionally the Community Parliament will punish you to a severance fee of $500 to the community's bursary You may decide to make amendments to your agreement in order to stay on good terms with them. IF only you can complete your membership fee payment immediately to avoid our mediation or a small claims in court. situations, so everyone feels fairly served and compensated.