An ABDL/caregiver relationship is special and unique, but like other power exchange relationships it requires consent, trust and a mutual understanding of what each individuals needs and wants are. This is by no means all the activities you may engage in, but it is a good starting point to respect boundaries and negotiate play.
Both partners fill out Y for yes, N for no and M for maybe on each activity and then show and discuss what you want to try, hard limits and ideas that will require more research or discussion.
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DIAPER WEARING
DIAPER WETTING
DIAPER MESSING (#2)
DIAPER CHANGES BY MOMMY
DISCREET PUBLIC DIAPER WEAR/CHECKS
24/7 OR LONG TERM DIAPER WEAR
BATHROOM USE RESTRICTIONS (NO GOING
WITHOUT PERMISSION)
CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT MOMMY HAS ALL POWER AND CONTROL
MOMMY FEEDS BABY IN HIGHCHAIR
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DRINKING FROM BOTTLES
BATH TIME
SIMULATED BREASTFEEDING
ACTUAL BREASTFEEDING (LACTATION)
ENFORCED CHASTITY
MOMMY CUCKOLDING
JANAL PLUGS
STRAP ON PLAY
MOMMY DRESSES BABY
SLEEPING IN CRIB
ABDL NANNY OR BABYSITTER (SOMEONE
OTHER THAN MOMMY LIKE A FRIEND)
1 ENEMAS
GENDER PLAY MOMMY CAN DRESS BABY IN EITHER GENDER CLOTHING AS SHE SEES FIT
TEASE AND DENIAL
PROSTATE MILKING
SPANKING OR CORPORAL PUNISHMENT
MAID DUTY
ORAL SERVITUDE *CUNNILINGUS, ANALLINGUS, ETC)
RULES, CHORES, PUNISHMENTS
BABY ACYIVITIES (COLORING, CRAFTS, CARTOONS ETC)
SIMULATED DIAPER MESSING (MUSHY
BANANAS, ETC IN DIAPER)
LAXATIVES OR SUPPOSITORIES
PANTY WEARING
BABY TALK ONLY
BODY MODIFICATION (TATTOOS, PIERCINGS, ETC)
BODY WORSHIP (FEET, ASS, BREASTS)
BDSM AND BONDAGE
DIAPERED AND DRESSED AT FETISH EVENTS
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